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Hidden Treasures - Modesty Is a Jewel

In our generation, may the Almighty have mercy, licentiousness reigns in the streets. It is simply astonishing that people are not ashamed to appear in public looking like that. I think the reason is…

Hidden Treasures - Covered Hair

And not only a woman's body must be covered, but her hair as well. Why? If we examine hair under a microscope, we will see that it is hollow. A hair is a kind of channel leading to the human brain. H…

Hidden Treasures - The Essence of Modesty

Put simply, the essence of modesty is protection. In the material world, a person puts on warm clothing in winter to protect against the cold. Likewise, in the spiritual world, everything needs prote…

Hidden Treasures - Two Views of Clothing

The Maharal writes: “The highest praise for a woman is recognition of her modesty. The highest level she can reach is modesty” (“Gevurot Hashem,” chapter 60). The Vilna Gaon, of blessed memory, in hi…

Jewish Modesty - A Contemporary Perspective

A villager had a “Yerushalmi” siddur that explained which kavanot were needed for each prayer; lofty words and thoughts that one was meant to absorb were printed in small type. This man had to turn p…

What a Woman’s Clothing Reflects

Men’s and women’s clothing speak different languages. The Torah prohibits women from wearing men’s clothing and vice versa. Unlike a man’s wardrobe, a woman’s closet contains all the colors of the ra…

Clothing That Speaks

It is impossible to imagine a person without clothing—that is, a Human Being, rather than a Mowgli. If clothing only protected the body from cold or other weather conditions, why do animals not need…

Every Woman’s “Built-In” Modesty

The weekly Torah portion of Ki Teitzei contains an important prohibition: “No Ammonite or Moabite shall enter the congregation of the Almighty. Even their tenth generation shall not enter the congreg…

Women's Perfume

A pleasant scent is a source of great pleasure. Scents play an enormous role in the non-Jewish world—one need only look at how developed the perfume industry is around the world. Scent also has an im…

What Does “Made from a Rib” Mean?

The Hebrew word for “rib” is tzela. Oral tradition tells us that Woman was created specifically from a rib, rather than from any other part of the body. A rib is a part of the human body that is cons…