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The Gift of Speech - A Big Difference

“Shalom, Chavi! This is Mrs. Cohen, Libi's mother.” Chavi held her breath and even blushed with excitement. “You came over yesterday and asked whether I wanted to send my four-year-old daughter to yo…

Our Speech - Using Clean Language

I also want to speak specifically about purity of speech. The Torah itself states (Genesis, 7:8): “And of the animal that is not clean.” The Torah usually uses very concise language, but here, instea…

Our Speech - The Power of Spoken Words

It is written in the Gemara (Moed Katan, 18a): “A covenant is made with the lips.” This principle demonstrates the power of the spoken word. Thus, as Abraham was on his way to sacrifice Isaac, he tol…

Our Speech - Building on Ruins

We, the builders of a Jewish home, must be very good engineers, carefully considering our words and actions. Then we will truly be able to build. Building can also take place on ruins—a person in des…

Our Speech - How Can We Keep Our Speech Clean?

One of the things most destructive to a Jewish home is unclean speech. How can we keep our speech clean? First and foremost, of course, there is lashon hara (speaking ill of others) and rechilut (gos…

Our Speech - Words Wound and Heal

I would like to begin with a parable that beautifully illustrates everything we will discuss next. A wealthy man of noble birth was visiting another wealthy aristocrat. They were served a lavish meal…

The Most Beautiful Song Is Silence

It is written in the Book of Job (26:7): “(The Almighty) hangs the earth on belimah (emptiness).” The word belimah, translated as “emptiness,” literally means beli mah—on nothing. From this our Sages…