Neshama Sheli

Raising children

Explore Jewish parenting, family communication and passing traditions on to children, with articles and ideas for mothers and fathers.

Jewish parenting: reading with children and about teenagers

Desire and Motivation - The Role of the Family

Our topic today is “How to instill in a child the desire to do what needs to be done.” This may sound unclear, but let me explain. For example, a child has a choice: go and study or go and play. What…

Desire and Motivation - The Role of the Mother

Our topic today is “How to instill in a child the desire to do what needs to be done.” This may sound unclear, but let me explain. For example, a child has a choice: go and study or go and play. What…

A Lesson in Trust, Support, and Patience

In the previous article, we discussed praise and support. Today we will describe the remarkable effect that praise, support, and trust can have on a child in a seemingly hopeless situation. Our guest…

On One Foot—What You Need to Know About Praise

Let me briefly remind you of what is important to know about praise: As we said, a child should always receive love, without any conditions at all, simply because they are our child—they are entitled…

Praise - Initiative …Is Encouraged!

Initiative …Is Encouraged! Every child has moments when, on his own initiative, he does something good: plays with and keeps the younger children occupied, washes the floor or the dishes as a surpris…

Praise and the Taste of Defeat

The Taste of Defeat Conversely, demanding that an overly difficult task be completed will have the opposite effect. Let’s say we have a seven-year-old girl whose mother tells her: “I’m going to lie d…

Praise — How to Praise and How to Scold

Even When Scolding, Build on the Child’s Good Qualities In response to some misbehavior, a parent can say: “Such a good, well-mannered boy as you! I simply can’t believe you did this! It’s so unlike…